Sometimes feelings and emotions can be so confusing, conflicting and contradicting all at the same time, especially when you meet someone new.
Is it lust, is it joy, is it happiness, is it the sense of belonging? I think its everything, as you dive into a new flame, or new love rather, its like a roller coaster, its like a wave of emotions that flow through you, weather the connection is true or not, i think its all down to time then? isn't it?
if the attraction is there? if the connection is there? if the 'like for like' is here, but there's just something holding back?
is it fear? is it lack of trust, is it negative thoughts? who knows? but i don't think any one really has the answers to these questions right? I mean we could all read books, watch videos, listen to seminars, all those things are great! but they will never really prepare you for what actually goes on in your heart and mind when it comes to emotions and how you should feel or even act when you first meet someone!
Do we go 'all in' or do we leave room for mystery as time goes on? How do we do this dating thing?
My opinion? Why waste time on the' What if'
If we all got caught up on the what if, there would be no magic, there would be no sacrifice, there would be no love, no war, none of that. I think there is so much magic in just letting things flow, we should never force anything.
Time should be the most important ingredient of life, and the love of time. if we continuously look at time in a negative way, time will automatically give you every negative obstacle to overcome in order for you to appreciate the time you have been given and with who you have been given time with!